Gottman Institute

With the help of Gottman relationship skills and deep listening, we can better understand people who are different from us.

Dr. Gottman's lessons can help no matter what stage you are in

Listening to understand, not to react

Being a strong woman doesn’t mean rejecting humility.

Stop those defensive feelings in their tracks with Gottman’s Four Horsemen theory.

Here’s how to make everyday conflicts less draining.

Take time to remember all the little moments, not just the beginning.

You can argue and still have a great marriage—you just need to learn to argue the right way.

Don’t let your wedding day be the last day you truly appreciate your spouse

You're bound to argue (everyone does), but you need to learn to fight fair.