Gottman Institute
Communication Skills that Can Bridge Divides
With the help of Gottman relationship skills and deep listening, we can better understand people who are different from us.
By Lindsey WeisharAug 4, 2021
The Book on Healthy Marriages that Helps Me as a Single Woman
Dr. Gottman's lessons can help no matter what stage you are in
By Patty BreenOct 17, 2019
Learning to Listen without Getting Defensive
Listening to understand, not to react
By Patty BreenSep 20, 2019
This One Little Thing Keeps Hurting My Marriage, and Taylor Swift Helped Me Realize It
Being a strong woman doesn’t mean rejecting humility.
By Sophie CaldecottNov 24, 2017
This Tried-and-Tested Tip Will Help You Bicker Like a Happy Couple
Stop those defensive feelings in their tracks with Gottman’s Four Horsemen theory.
By Sophie CaldecottNov 16, 2017
4 Solutions to the Most Common Relationship Problems
Here’s how to make everyday conflicts less draining.
By The Gottman InstituteJan 18, 2017
Why Your ‘Love Story’ Could Make or Break Your Relationship
Take time to remember all the little moments, not just the beginning.
By Mandi DeVosJan 12, 2017
6 Strategies for Handling Conflict in Your Marriage
You can argue and still have a great marriage—you just need to learn to argue the right way.
By Kathleen O’BeirneNov 30, 2016
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Three Daily Rituals That Stop Spouses from Taking Each Other for Granted
Don’t let your wedding day be the last day you truly appreciate your spouse
By Peter McFaddenJul 16, 2015
3 Things Every Couple Needs to Know About Fighting Well
You're bound to argue (everyone does), but you need to learn to fight fair.
By Zach BrittleJul 20, 2016