Discerning Love
When She Knew: Seeing Past Our Differences
Once I decided which things really mattered to me, the answer was clear.
When She Knew: A Bad Date Gone Right
I stuck to my values—and was surprised when my standards were surpassed.
When She Knew: From “Me” to “We”
The odds of our paths crossing were slim, but I’m so grateful they did.
When She Knew: Taking Off My Rose-Colored Glasses
I didn’t expect to love so much that was unfamiliar to me.
The Strength of Hidden Desire: Elinor Dashwood as a Heroine of Mature Love
Reflections on the growth of the female heart in a Regency romance
You Love Him, But Are You a Good or Bad Fit for Marriage?
Discerning goodness of fit *before* you get married
Here’s How I Rewired My Brain to Find Guys Who Were Compatible with Me
This one mental shift helped me attract guys that were good for me.
Gentlemen Speak: She’s Pretty, She’s Smart, and She’s Fun, So Why Don’t I Ask Her Out?
Seriously, it isn’t you—you’re wonderful. But love is a mysterious thing sometimes.