What I learned from a would-be vulnerable moment

Knowing when the stars just aren’t aligning

Realizing that I was looking for more

Letting go of the mind games

My mom’s advice stuck with me

Embracing a new meaning for “getting out there”

He wasn’t the one for me, but I still had something to learn

I had to go out on a limb to realize he wasn’t the one for me

Finding the language to say “yes”

A shared sense of humor makes dating fun and can affect how you handle the ups and downs of life together

Embracing a balance between modesty and confidence in my own ambitions

A candid approach to dating that shows respect for the other person

Looking back on our past self and mistakes with gentleness and wisdom

Freeing ourselves and our relationships from the tyranny of our own fears.

Marriage is hard and life is hard—but love can be healing.

Go with your gut.

Sometimes, the message is more nuanced than we first realize

Hold on to your non-negotiables.

Who knew a fashion statement could tell me so much?

Incorporate intentionality into your approach to dating.

Your time (and his) is valuable.

Love is learned in romantic and non-romantic relationships.

Sometimes the best dates are among friends